We wear lingerie for all kinds of reasons. But the lingerie you wear should make you feel beautiful and give you an extra boost of confidence. If your lingerie doesn’t make you feel more like a goddess when you put it on, then you are wearing the wrong lingerie.
When you are confident, it shows in everything that you do. It makes you walk a little taller, smile a little bigger, and command more respect from those around you. You are the best thing in your life and you always will be! You are your biggest fan and your most trusted confidante and you deserve your own love and respect! You are awesome and you should know it!!
Your lingerie is a natural confidence booster. Knowing that the clothes you have on next to your body are fabulous, can’t help but make you feel better about everything, not only yourself.
Your confidence can come from a lot of places but the most important place it can come from is You! There are any number of things that can give you a little boost; a great dress or pair of shoes can give you a little pep in your step. Doing a great job on a work project or school assignment is another good way to gain a little extra self-esteem, but lingerie is a way to help boost your confidence all the time, every day.
When I get dressed in the morning, even if I am putting on some old clothes so I can paint the dining room, I always start off with matching bra and panties. It is not hard at all to wear matching bras and panties every day and it makes me feel incredible! (My husband does not seem to mind it either 😉 )
Now by matching I don’t mean that I buy all my underwear and bras in sets. I simply make sure that they are the same color, or that they are of coordinating, contrasting colors. Like a black bra with a red bow and a pair of red panties or a a white bra with yellow and pink polka dots matched with a pair of yellow panties. I have a lot of multi-colored bras that make it a little easier to find matching panties too. No matter what, I make sure that they look good together and being that they are sexy, they make me feel sexy just knowing I have them on.
The Right Lingerie is a Real Confidence Booster
Your lingerie should make you feel good about you when you put it on. There are a lot of different styles of lingerie out there these days, if you are not sure what style is right for you, don’t be afraid to ask the opinion of the stylist at your local lingerie store. Here at the LingerieSuperStores, we have a great staff who are always willing to offer their expertise. They will talk with you about your desires and then help you find exactly what you are looking for, even if you don’t know what that is yet.
Your lingerista will bring your selections to the dressing room and help you with putting them on if needed. They will assist you with everything from running for a different size or color, to picking out additional styles to try on. Your lingerista is there to help feel good about you. Make the most of your lingerie shopping experience and try on several different outfits. Sometimes your favorite style is the one you weren’t sure about until you tried it on.
The most important thing to remember when you are trying on or buying lingerie is…If it does not make you feel awesome and sexy, do not buy it. You should not buy lingerie because you think someone else will like it or because it is all they had at the store. Lingerie has a powerful connection to your attitude that may not even be apparent all the time. Think about it, when you are wearing your favorite lingerie, it makes you feel like a queen right? All your lingerie should make you feel that good.
Buy Your Lingerie Because it Makes You Feel Good
If you buy your lingerie because you think it is what someone else will like, you are pinning your self-esteem on whether that person likes it or not, not how it makes you feel. If that other person doesn’t like it as much as you think they should, or worse yet, if they don’t notice it for some reason, it may make you feel bad without them even knowing why. That’s a lot of pressure on both of you for no reason.
Buy your lingerie because it makes you feel beautiful and you both will be happy with it. If your lingerie makes you feel sensual and romantic, it will have the same effect on your lover. Confidence is one of the sexiest things you can have. When you show confidence, people take notice. They can’t help but be drawn to you, to want to be near you and have your affections bestowed upon them. Confidence may be the most powerful aphrodisiac there is.
So go out there, buy yourself some gorgeous lingerie that makes you feel like a million dollars and rock your and your lover’s world. Or you can simply wear it to the office for an extra boost of confidence the next time you have an important meeting or conference.